life by design, not by default.         

life by design, not by default

    life by design, not by default.         

life by design, not by default

hi! i'm darrah

  (pronounced like sarah with a d).  i've spent the last decade crafting and integrating my life and work intentionally, not choosing one over the other. i’ve come to learn that my hypothesis was true: you can create a life and a career you the same time...without losing yourself in the process, or succumbing to the fable that you must burn out and sleep when you’re dead.

i’m here to show you how to shortcut my years of testing, and help you create a life you love.  i'm not a coach, i'm simply a friend who loves to curate and connect you to the resources you need.

*spoiler alert: it starts with doing the inner work to uncover what you want, then build the right relationships to support your vision, all the while creating the financial freedom you need to choose how you spend your time.

want to live a life by design, not default? 

i created a 3-day virtual summit featuring 45 speakers and over 20 hours of content.

the world's leading authorities will teach you how to intentionally design the life and career you desire... and deserve. get lifetime access immediately.

want practical and applicable free resources to help you design your ideal life? 

(*no spamming. promise.)

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free goodies for you on the 3 fundamental keys i’ve used to craft my ideal life (so you can too):


check out how utilizing the content from my emails and articles has helped ronny, and could also be just the thing you need too:  

“my interactions with darrah have cemented the validity of my wildest dreams. she has challenged and empowered me. i recognize that my impact is possible with integration and execution.”

ronny turiafnba champion, 2-time olympian, and founder of the heart to heart foundation

so where do you start? 

the biggest thing, no matter where you are in your journey, is your network. 

i’d love to share with you my free guide "the 55 best questions to ask to break the ice and really get to know someone"

download my free guide to get started! 

from there, i’ll send notes periodically with helpful (and free) content to keep encouraging you to bust up the status quo and start living life on your terms.  

  it’s my mission to help a new generation live their lives by design and not by default.  

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